Some spaces like a garden, evoke grace. But exactly what is ‘grace’?
I browsed the dictionary trying to find a definition that properly defined what I meant by a garden having grace. There were so many meanings to choose from.
I ventured further and found the Three Graces (Charites) in Greek mythology, said to be daughters of Zeus, the king of all gods.
The Three Graces were: ‘Aglaia, the Grace that symbolized Beauty, Euphrosyne, the Grace of Delight and Thalia, the Grace of Blossom. According to Greek poet Pindar, these enchanting goddesses were created to fill the world with pleasant moments and goodwill’ (ref).
Now I was getting close. Beauty, delight and blossoms, created for pleasant moments and goodwill, isn’t that an apt description for a garden? I think of the moments of peace my garden gives me at the end of the day. The graceful arching fronds of the Fijian Hairs foot fern, or the recently spiking Cymbidium orchids with their cascading strappy leaves. I delight in the beauty of my massed pink petunias. They’re called Shockwave and that describes their colour and form perfectly. Beauty, delight and blossoms abound, in my tiny garden, even at this time of the year.
However, there is something more about the idea of grace that transcends worldly or even mythological description. For me, grace is a deep-seated feeling, a state of mind; elusive, fleeting and intangible. The state of being I have when I meditate successfully or when I am in my garden. A kind of blissful, boundless interconnectedness.
There is no separation between the garden and the gardener
For my garden, grace is inherent, but for me it is something I constantly have to work on.
I wonder gentle reader, what grace is for you?
This is lovely Robyn!
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Thank you Lyn. I appreciate you taking time to comment. What do you think when you ponder ‘grace’ Lyn?
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I wish I could answer you Robyn, but I am at a loss for words. I know when I ride in our beautiful countryside on a warm, dappled sunlit day, I feel joy deeply.
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I think that’s a pretty good description of grace for you Brenda. I’m keenly interested to know what others think. Thank you.
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Grace! As you say, it has so many many meanings. I don’t think It’s a word I use much as a noun, but I remember once thinking of a house as “graceful” when I entered it. By which I meant (I think) welcoming but self-contained, with a sense of quiet pleasure in itself. Or perhaps delight? The house was small, modestly furnished and decorated, but it had its own spirit.
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I love that idea: a space which exudes grace. I feel sensitive to houses and other buildings too. I remember visiting the old Melbourne jail once after it had become a museum. There was such an absence of grace there. No, I wasn’t an inmate! It was where the hanging of Ned Kelly took place. He was an Australian outlaw who became a folk hero.The place was so foreboding and oppressively sad I couldn’t wait to leave.
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That’s a nice way to think about grace. A you know, I don’t have a garden (sniff), but I feel an interconnectedness with nature when I go walking in the hills, so perhaps that counts. 🙂
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It does count. I believe that state of grace can be attained when you feel at one with all.
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For me grace implies movement – either in space or in time. A fern frond, unfurling in a graceful curve, a bird swooping in to a perfect landing, a runner with an apparently effortless gait. In a garden, as in a home, grace seems to be a pause when everything fits perfectly. It can’t be captured or tied down!
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I love your description Judith. It’s surprisingly hard to pin it down isn’t it?
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I find it hard to describe grace with words too. The feeling in meditation, the pause in nature, the movement of dance, the quiet peace when one just “is”
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Yes! All of those things exemplify grace. Especially when one just ‘is’. Beautifully expressed. Thank you for your thoughts Robyn.
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Beautiful
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Thank you for taking time to comment.
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Any time 🙂
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Hmmm…I think your post has perfectly described how I felt on Saturday when I went to see Mum. This time she was in a very deep sleep, courtesy of some pain medication they have had her on for a little while. If I was to put a word on my interaction with her over the past year, it would be for the most part, disconnection. But on Saturday, despite her not being aware that I was sitting beside her bed (I don’t think so anyway), I felt connected. I sat and watched her and at some point, fell asleep myself. Your comment “A kind of blissful, boundless interconnectedness” is exactly how it felt during that visit. Peaceful. Blissful. Soft. GRACE.
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I’m so glad for you Kim. Grace and all it contains is there for us all if we just remember to pause to allow it. It has been a long journey for you but looking back, one I know you’ll appreciate greatly when you have time and space to reflect.
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And thank you for bringing the book to my attention. I’m not sure which Grace I prefer. I’ll have to give that a bit of thought. Thank you, Robyn. I think your tiny garden is filled with grace.
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Speaking of books, I’m hooked on Louise Penny’s. What will I do when I’ve read them all?! Thanks for introducing me to them.
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There’s always Donna Leon. She has a mystery series set in Venice. Jacqueline Winspear’s Maisie Dobbs series set in England between WWI and WWII) and Peter Tremayne’s Sister Fidelma Series (in ancient Ireland). That should keep you a bit busy in addition to writing and gardening and everything else that fills our days.😄
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Thanks for the recommendations. Ive decided murder mysteries are my new favourite genre. But only because Penny’s are so much more than that I think. More literary, less blood and guts.
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You’ll find that the other two writers are the same. I like a well-written mystery with a definite sense of place.
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Penny certainly fits that bill.
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Yes, I didn’t realize the problems Cam\nada was having politically and the religious connection to all of it.
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There seems to be quite a divide between Anglos and French speakers in Quebec.
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Unbelievable tension and a seemingly bitter resentment of the Church’s role in all of it. I was surprised at the feeling of betrayal they had in priests and her later stories center around police corruption. I must read some non-fiction books on the state of affairs in Canada today.
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As a former journalist it’s not surprising Penny would use those elements as background. It creates complexity and great tension for sure. Like you I need to read up on this subject.
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I think you’ve described it quite well Robyn. Grace is a beautiful enigma that we know when it touches us. Perhaps the knowing is all we need.
Thanks for an enjoyable post.
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Thanks Gail. It’s interesting how differently people perceive what grace is to them.
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Blissful, boundless interconnectedness is how I feel when I consciously appreciate the moments given to me. I couldn’t adequately put it into words until I read your post. Thank you Robyn ❤
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Gratitude is a state of grace Steph, for me too. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for writing such a lovely piece Robyn.
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Great read about grace!
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Thank you! There are so many ways to think about grace aren’t there? I’ve enjoyed the views of other bloggers. Thank you for taking the time to visit and read. 🙂
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My pleasure! and True that there are many ways to thin about grace..I am impressed the way you wrote about grace in your blog.
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Thank you VE.
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One aspect of grace that I love is that it comes unasked for. Grace stands outside the ethos of striving, trying, worrying and self help. Best we can do is be ready and open to the possibility.
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Rachel, your comment sent me off into contemplation. Is grace unasked for? Yes. Sometimes. Although I know I strive for a state of grace – even though it seems inherent in some people. But I agree, trying or striving is less effective than simply being ‘open’ to grace. Perhaps that’s where the striving comes in – striving to be open to it. I suppose a great deal also rests on how we define grace. I’m speaking of being in that zone of connectedness with all that is, in the absence of ego or even self awareness. Just being.
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You have decoded me nicely. I guess my concept of grace is theological. Lazy of me!
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You always make me think. I thank you for it 😊
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